Glad You're Here!

Hi!

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Im Betsy Perez, and first, I am so excited that you're here. I know some of us dont end up on similar websites because of the most ideal circumstances however! My excitement comes from knowing that you are in a state of curiosity and considering the idea of possibility for yourself, and sexual well being.

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I was born in Santo Domingo, DR and raised in the South Bronx, NY. Today I can tell you that my childhood was everything it needed to be along with the roaring impact its had on my life even till this day.

 

It wasnt until I aged out of foster care and lived on my own a few months shy of 21, that my body had the space to decompress and begin the recovery process, leading to almost ten years on and off welfare often nearing eviction, PTSD and other diagnosis, losing jobs and relatioships and constant self abandonment. Not to mention the havoc it had on my sexual relationship with myself and others. Still, amid the chaos and fragility of what my life had become and was unbecoming, I continued to write, and even perform my own work solo, and with others.

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I made the conscious decision to let my life fall apart because I understood the concept of root causes, and used myself as a case study. The times I was able to have enough energy and clarity, I'd breakdown my behavior, my systems, the ones that where in my favor for wellness and the ones aiding in my stagnation and self destruction. It was all information for me, the emotions, the breakdowns of my body and connections, the events of my life because I knew based on research at the time, 2011, not too many holistic approaches, if any, that were being talked about included sexual healing from my perspective, that childhood sexual abuse at is core is a creative wound. It has the potential to impair a humans ability to fully attune to themselves and use all of their faculties, seen and unseen to create the life that clearly most favors their mission in this life.

 

I understood that sexual energy is creative energy and we create every moment with our body.

 

As of today, I am 180 from the woman I was in my 20s because I addressed those direct sexual body wounds and had a holistic understanding of sexual healing. This has also led me on this incredible path to coach adults who experienced childhood sexual abuse and want to improve their sexual well being via an intimate process I've created based on my own sexual healing experience using writing and performance; a process that I have shared with many in writing circles globally.

 

Currently, Im living in the North Bronx, working on publishing my 2nd children's book and a solo show.

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I hope to hear from you and get to know more about what your being called to in this season of healing.