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He's actually tired of you just, letting him. Your fear of tension is creating distance while you think it's creating closeness because the sex hasn't stopped. Sex doesn't equate to intimacy. You're confusing skin to skin with presence and connection. What you don't realize is... He needs an opportunity to resolve his own underlying suspicion that something isn't right. He doesn't want to just fuck you but you keep saying, "I'm fine" or "You're overthinking" while he sees it

The process of creating a new relationship with your body after childhood sexual abuse can be mundane sometimes. Why? It requires repetition. The repetitive training of daily presence as a muscle and skill that we want to grow and strengthen to supports sexual presence. Just like going to the gym, there are ways that we can make it a more pleasurable experience and then there are some days that it doesn't matter how cute the outfit is, its just gonna suck and you're banking o