He Doesn't Just Wanna Fuck You: Tips to Begin Communicating Sexual Challenges
- Betsy Perez
- Mar 22
- 1 min read
He's actually tired of you just, letting him.
Your fear of tension is creating distance while you think it's creating closeness because the sex hasn't stopped.
Sex doesn't equate to intimacy. You're confusing skin to skin with presence and connection.
What you don't realize is...
He needs an opportunity to resolve his own underlying suspicion that something isn't right.
He doesn't want to just fuck you but you keep saying, "I'm fine" or "You're overthinking" while he sees it in your eyes, feels the subtle pulling away from him.
He wants to connect and meet you where you are in the season of healing:
Unsure
Low in confidence
Frustrated
Still desiring his touch and intimate connection
Let him show you, you are not alone.
Many of us carry fears around expressing our needs, desires and especially, dislikes and challenges around sex because we don't want to be left alone. We don't want to be the reasons why it all falls apart, we want to avoid conflict, similar to the responses some of feared growing up if anyone found out about the abuse or fear that the same negative consequences would repeat today.
Im here to tell you that the challenges you are experience are a divine opportunity to strengthen not just your relationship with yourself but with your partner. An opportunity for refreshing your connection, a deeper level of curiosity and authentic intimacy.
Your relationship needs this challenge.
Allow it to be stressed tested.
Allow it to transform beneath the courage of the unknown.
How can you begin communicating with your partner and take advantage of this season?
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